Are you a rich and confident woman who wants a guy but does not really need one? And do you prefer dating younger men that like your attention and lifestyle but don’t have any intentions about becoming your boyfriend? Then becoming a sugar mama might be the right thing for you.

What is a sugar mama?

Sugar mamas are women you like the company of young men. But they are also women who provide for men so that they can be free to provide the sugar mama with her needs and desires. A sugar mama does not pay a boy toy for liking her. Instead she chooses one man or several men that she connects and feels comfortable with.

In this article we will tell you how to become a sugar mama – and a good one!

Choose the right guy

If you want success in becoming a sugar mama the first thing you need to do is finding the right guy. You can also have several at the same time but that will get confusing over time. To find a boy toy you need to sign up on a sugar dating website. On such a site you can see profile pictures and a description about who they are.

Choose a couple of men and start chatting with them. Quickly, you will find out who you have got the best chemistry with. Invite that guy on a fancy date to see how the connection is between you in real life. If the connection is not good you just start all over again until you have found the right guy for you.

Buy gifts for your boy toy

When being a sugar mama you must buy some luxurious gifts for your boy toy. It is a necessary thing and something that he expects from you. How often you do it is up to you. But it is a good thing to do it every month.

What you should buy for your boy toy depends on the type of guy that you are dating. But find out what his interests are. If he likes ice hokey then buy him season tickets. If he likes travelling, then give him some nice equipment for that. Just always make sure that the gift is high quality as that will be something that he expects.

Take him on a vacation

If you like your boy toy, then please him with at least one nice vacation every year if you can afford it of course. Take him to a tropic place with palm trees and azure blue water. That will certainly be something that he likes! It is a good opportunity to spend some quality time together away from all the hazzle at home.

If you don’t like the idea of bringing a boy toy on your vacation, you can also take him a weekend to somewhere in Europe. That would please him too!

Be interested in him

If you want to make sure that he keeps interested in you, you must also pay attention to him and ask him about his life and whereabouts. You gain nothing from treating him like a toy. He is something precious – make sure that he knows that.

Of course, don’t ask him about his past or anything personal such as family. There are lots of ways to show him that you are interested in him and his doing. But remember not to get too close if you want to keep the relation between you with distance.